I got asked again today if I was pregnant. Both times now have been by clients (and within the last 2 wks), and granted I work at a mental health clinic, but still, it stings. Today when the client asked if I was pregnant and I told her no, she said, you look like it. Um, thanks? I guess they are full of brutal honesty.
I have been doing so good on my diet and while I would give anything to actually be pregnant, looking that way when I am not is something I don’t want. It is frustrating that I am trying so hard, and people have still made comments about it. (She also told me today that I have a double chin.)
And no, thank you for bringing it up, I am not pregnant. M and I have been trying to, and can’t seem to become pregnant. I don’t know if we ever will. So thank you again for digging the dagger a little deeper. Now go take your crazy pills.
That sucks, I'm sorry. My neighbor came over last week and was like "well, I don't know if you'll ever have kids, but here watch this video of my baby granddaughter while I stand here and watch you". Um, thanks for making me die a little inside on a random Tuesday morning. People just don't get it.
ReplyDeleteHorrible! I would have been like "I would rather pull my own fingernails out thank you"! They don't get it. And not a day goes by that we don't all think about it, so when people do things like that, it makes it that much worse.
ReplyDeleteI changed my shirt three times before leaving for school last night because I looked so fat!! I am so afraid of people asking me when I am due because all my weight is around my middle! And I have the flattest butt you will ever see. I am INSANELY jealous of people with good meaty butts! My pants sag! :(
ReplyDeleteI have a big butt, but its covered in cellulite! And I have huge legs, I hate how big they are :( It sucks having to stretch out your shirts before putting them on in hopes to hide your weight. But unless you know for 100% that someone is pregnant, you don't say a word!
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